Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Road Rage (Against the Machine)


“What a great day to be alive!” I say to myself as I get into my car and fire the engine. As I begin to drive, I roll down the window and crank some tunes and think “What a great day for an aimless drive”. Today, not even the dreadful prices of crude can bring me down. In fact, it seems as though, nothing can bring me down. That is, until I enter the freeway. Speeding along at a steady rate of speed, I suddenly see a bright red beast in front of me. His name appears to be ford. (Escort to be more exact). It seems this guy has forgot or perhaps never learned that the pass lane is the fast lane and the fast lane is the pass lane! Should I slam into his rear bumper?! Or perhaps enforce my horn-a-tude upon this lad? I take a deep breath, breathe in the fresh afternoon air and realize it’s not worth the hassle. I begin to laugh as I think of the stupidity of road rage. A moment later, Mr. Escort seems to realize either his mistake or me behind him and kindly pulls to the right lane. Ahh yes! “Victory at last!” I think to myself as I drive off into the sunset.

Cheers to all!

Nick

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Technology: Good or Bad?

Today as I sat in a coffee shop, I found myself eavesdropping on a conversation that was taking place between two men who I estimate were in their eighties. As they began to talk, I started to listen as they were providing a wealth of knowledge and information. They began discussing the days of old, how business used to thrive in a shopping mall across the street from where we all sat, and how sad and empty the same buildings now looked. The conversation then turned to old radio programs, and how the people on various radio shows had talent, as well as taste. These programs served as a time for whole families to gather around the radio (as television had yet to become a mainstay), to provide some much needed laughter during turbulent times, such as was taking place during World War II. One of the gentlemen then made a remark about how television lacks substance, and is quite sexual, perverted, and tasteless.

As I began to think about what he had said, I began to realize how right he was. Even in the last twenty years, the quality of television programming, as well as the shows that now air, have diminished significantly. Where bad language was once not allowed on television shows, it has now become a standard practice, and deemed "cool." However in my opinion, there is nothing "cool" about foul language coming out of the mouths of actors on television shows, as many children now confide themselves in technology's grasp. Such television shows are a direct influence on children, and as we all know, kids are like sponges that absorb everything they hear and see. As I have stated in previous blogs, I feel that technology is hindering us much more than it is helping. Don't believe me? Consider this: There once was a time where children played outside in their yards, where neighbors knew one another and had trusting friendships, where whole neighborhoods would gather as a community. With some rare exceptions, most neighborhoods are now desolate as you walk or drive down the street. No longer do you hear children’s laughter and joy as they play outside. Due to such inventions as television, computers, and cell phones, children and adults alike, now confide themselves inside their homes. In addition, due to neighborhoods no longer having a sense of community, which fostered safety and trust, parents now live in fear of letting their children outside to play, pretend, and explore.

Furthermore, many people no longer enjoy reading a good book, or care about good spelling or writing skills. With such devices as instant messenger and texting on cell phones, the English language has now become full of abbreviations. The sad part is that most college students spend more time on Facebook during a classroom lecture, than paying attention to what is being taught, as most professors just think that their students are using their laptops for taking notes. Walk around any college campus in the United States and you will see nearly 75% of all students looking down as they walk while texting on their cell phones (be careful you might get ran into by one of them!).

Although technology certainly has provided great advances in inventions, medicine, and science, I personally feel that it is hindering us more than it is improving our quality of life. I believe that technology (as well as over processed, and fast food) is a large factor for the current issue of obesity in the United States. Moreover, due to people being stuck in their homes instead of enjoying nature, there are a lot less people exercising. This fact is also aided by more white-collar office jobs, where individuals sit at a desk all day looking at a computer screen.

Is there any hope for what I have officially dubbed as the "Technological-Trap Disease?" I believe unless more awareness is generated among the general public, this problem will only continue to get worse. I write this blog as my way to help you the reader, consider the negative effects of technology. It is my hope that you will consider the above mentioned social and physical issues, and begin to take steps in order to make a change toward improvement.

Let us always remember the wisdom of the older generation, and respect their point of view, for I feel they have a lot to offer.

Until next time,
Nick

Thursday, February 25, 2010

4 Months and 7 (Okay, Okay, 5!) days ago....


Wow! Where does the time go? It's hard to believe it's been well over four months since my last blog entry. As of late, I have been focusing more on doing my video blogs, aka "vlogs" on my youtube channel (www.youtube.com/nickladish). All in all, things are going quite well for me. When I sit down to type these blogs, I don't sit and think of a topic or agenda, I just start typing-hence the title of my blog.

So what is on my mind tonight you may ask? It's the state of our nation, and the direction it is heading. The out of control spending, lack of fiscal responsibility, and government take over of the banking, auto, and possibly the health care industry, should be enough to worry us all, despite our individual party "affiliations." The nation wanted change, and change it recieved, just not in the form some expected. I tried to warn people of the dangers of putting a "freshman" senator in the oval office. The highest office in the land requires an individual who has considerable experience in government, as well as a vast knowledge of policy, economics, and foreign relations. Now don't get me wrong, I realize no one individual can know all things/topics pertaining to government and policy, but a good deal of experience working within government definately is necessary I feel, to be an efficient leader of a large country. The amount of money the government is spending, or rather borrowing (thanks to China, Japan and others), since we don't actually have the money on hand is frightening. There will be tremendous repercussions for this to be sure. We may not see such repercussions immediately, but in the not so distant future, it will prove to be a huge mistake. I could contine to ramble on about this subject, but for now, I will leave it at that.

I hope that as spring is nearing, you all are ready to get outside and enjoy the fresh air and sunshine, I know I am. Oh yeah, I will try not to take so long to post another entry on here.
Take care,

Nick

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

An Owl In The Night


Hello one and all! Okay, so I have been incredibly busy as of late, and I apologize for not posting daily. I will continue to do my best to post daily, but if I miss a day here and there, please don't hold it against me :P

So, as I was leaving my apartment earlier this evening, I saw an owl perched on a fence post that surrounds the pool. At first I thought it was fake, and that someone had set it on there. However, as soon as I stopped to look at it, it turned it's head and looked at me. I stood there for a few minutes just admiring. It's not very often that an owl is so low to the ground, at eye level, and you are able to observe it's movements. While staring at this creature of the night, I started thinking of my grandmother who passed away from alzheimer's a handful of years ago. She loved owl's. I have very vivid memories of being a child and going to visit her. Throughout her house were owl pictures, pillow's with owls on them that she had made, as well as cloth cupholder's, and candle place mat's she had made as well. Since I was young at the time, I never got the chance to ask her why she liked owl's so much. I wish I would have had the chance. Everytime I see something with an owl, or simply think of an owl, I am reminded of her smile, warmth, and love.

I miss her everyday, and think of her often. I just want to encourage you to never waste a moment, or opportunity to ask your grandparents, parents, relatives, friends etc, questions about their life, and their story. In turn, never hesitate to share your own story when asked. It's crucial that we enjoy the limited amount of time with the one's that are close to us. It is something we should never take for granted.

I hope your week is going well.

-Nick

Sunday, October 18, 2009

Short and Sweet


Hello one and all. First of all, I apologize for not posting the past couple of days. I have had a very busy weekend, and wasn't online at all. I'm going to keep this entry short. I have decided since this is a daily blog, to include you all. I am looking for any ideas you might have that you would like me to blog about. Though I have many ideas usually floating around in my head, I value and appreciate interaction, as well as ideas. So please feel free to leave you idea(s) in the comment section under this entry...I will be very greatful! I promise I will return to normally scheduled blogging tomorrow (Monday). I hope you all had a great weekend. Until tomorrow.....


-Nick

Thursday, October 15, 2009

It's All The Hype!

After seeing the events of today's "balloon boy" incident, I felt the need to write a post about how the media can hype up anything. First of all, I have to say I am glad there wasn't actually a boy who floated away in a balloon. Secondly, I can't help but to wonder if the whole incident wasn't just a publicity stunt. I mean, is it really a coincidence that the family of the "balloon boy" just happened to be on the television show Wife Swap? Some people will do anything to get, or stay, in the limelight. Look at "Octomom." After having way to many kids, she not only got to have dozens of interviews on big name shows, but also received her own show, and a hefty paycheck.

One thing we have to realize is that the media will do anything, and everything, to get the best ratings possible. This includes ridiculous stories like "Bigfoot found", "Octomom", and now "balloon boy." I get annoyed when I see such stories getting all the media attention. Especially when we have such things as war taking place in Iraq and Afghanistan, the health care debate, and problems with our economy. How come such stories as a suicide bomber killing 49 people gets minimal coverage, whilst some story about a boy who wasn't even in a balloon, but hiding in the garage attic, gets top headlines? It's the same reason you don't see very many good natured stories in the top headlines. It doesn't generate ratings, which in turn doesn't generate money. Those are the top two goals of any news/media outlet. Another reason we don't always see such stories, is that they take place on the other side of the world. We have a horrible habit in this country of, "if it doesn't affect me, then I can turn my eyes the other way."

Even when David Letterman admitted to having multiple affairs, the media turned him into the sad victim. Instead of focusing on his behavior, bad decisions, and how hurt his wife must feel, the media put the focus on how he was the victim who was trying to be extorted for money. This all occurred while his ratings shot way up.

How sad have we become as not only a nation, but as a human race, when we simply laugh off, or even promote such immoral acts? When we favor bogus stories, over serious news, and when we would rather see only negativity and death in the news over something positive? It seems to me that Satan surely does have his grip on this world.

I will leave you with a piece of advice-Don't always believe everything you hear about in the news. Even though it really is, "all the hype!"

-Nick

A Tale Of The Impersonal, Weary, Cashier.


Soooo...I failed to make a post yesterday. Sorry about that. I had a day jammed packed full of spending time with friends, as well as several hours of band rehearsal. However, since I want to make sure I post something everyday, I will make two posts today (the second one coming this evening).

There is something I have noticed the past few year's that has been bothering me. What could be bothering me you may ask? It has to do with courtesy, friendliness, and interaction. I have noticed several times over the past few year's, that cashier's have become quite rude. I usually make a point to go out of my way and ask how the cashier is doing etc. Now when I ask this, I really am interested in knowing how they feel, whether good or bad. However, there have been several occasions where when I asked, I was left with only silence. It is almost like I haven't spoken a single word. The other thing I have noticed is when the cashier say's to me "Hi! how are you today?" When asked this question I will typically answer honestly and say, "I'm doing quite well, good, or fine." I then always follow that up with, "How are you today?" Nine out of ten times, I don't recieve any answer at all, once again nothing but silence.

It seems to me that asking someone how they are isn't a legite question, it has simply become a way of saying hello. This frustrates me a lot. If I didn't geuninely care about how you are doing, I simply wouldn't ask. I only ask the quesiton, because I really care. Over the past decade as we have become more introverted due to technology, and fear, we have seemed to also lost our sense of compassion. Now, I'm certainly not saying everyone is guilty at all times of being rude in this fashion. But, there is a good majority of people in my experience who are.

I want to encourage you all to go out of your way today to be friendly to a cashier. Ask them about how they feel, and how their day is, and really mean it. I can understand while cashier's may be weary, and hard pressed to answer your question of how they are doing. They are on their feet for hours at a time. For that reason alone, I have a great deal of respect for cashier's. So if you are reading this and you are a cashier, I salute you, and I also really care for you.

It's time we put an end to this form of impersonal communication.

Thank you for reading,

-Nick